The most successful leaders “live the golden rule” — but what does that mean and why does it matter? Let’s dive into it!
What Is the Golden Rule
Living the golden rule is, at its core, a call to be kind, fair, and compassionate. It is to set aside your self-interest and reach for something higher. It includes acting with respect, honesty, kindness, justice, mercy, fairness, accountability, patience, and civility towards others, in the interest of others. It is one of the most impactful qualities of successful leaders!
Why The Golden Rule Matters
Here are some personal and professional reasons to live the Golden Rule:
- Create meaningful connection and understanding with others
- Build genuine, long-term friendships
- Find greater happiness and fulfillment in life
- Reduce stress and conflict
- Create a positive work environment
- Enhance collaboration and teamwork
- Increase employee engagement and customer loyalty
Seven Practical Best Practices
So, here are seven ways to practice the golden rule in your personal and professional life:
- Treat everyone, especially family and colleagues, with respect and kindness.
- Listen empathetically, and listen to understand, not to be understood.
- Be a team player; actively contribute and support collaborative projects and efforts.
- Be polite and courteous; smile, say thank you and please, and show appreciation.
- When conflict arises, be respectful, calm, considerate, and fair.
- Acknowledge and celebrate the achievements of others.
- Take responsibility for your actions and your mistakes.
The Critical Question
You may have read those seven practices introspectively. Now, take a moment to look at your conduct and relationships from the perspective of those around you. How would your family, significant other, kids, friends, coworkers, business partners, and strangers describe you and their interactions with you? Would their answers align with your introspective perspective? Living the golden rule has more to do with how others feel they are treated than how you feel you treat others.
Wrapping Up
Living the golden rule truly is one of the most impactful qualities of successful leaders! So, remember that practicing the golden rule is an ongoing effort. It requires self-awareness, empathy, and a genuine desire to treat others with kindness and respect. Work then on these seven practices in your interactions, and you’re well on your way to becoming your best in work and in life!
“Kindness shines a spotlight on others, without diminishing our own brightness.” — Adrienne Bankert
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